Living and loving with abandon despite our hurts in the past is so, so hard. Harder than anything I’ve done. Our trust has been broken, and our hearts want to close off to protect ourselves from more pain. It’s that human instinct, where if we let it, our hearts can and will grow hard. At least that’s the way it’s been for me. In the past year, I’ve had three separate pregnancies, and lost three babies.
But that’s not how I want to end up. A hardened heart that closes myself off from feeling the rawness of life. At the end of my days, with or without children on this earth, I want to know that I experienced the joy and the pain fully. It’s not about what I was or wasn’t blessed with in my lifetime. It’s not about us at all. I choose to praise Him because He is good, no matter what my circumstances may be. That’s just who Christ is. He isn’t good just because He’s blessed us with another life growing inside me right now. And if He too, took this life to be with Him before I am ready, He is still good and I will praise Him.
In the easy times and in the middle of the storm, I want to learn to speak of His faithfulness always.
~ M